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"Pathological Narcissus" as a Socially
Mandatory Form of Subjectivity
Slavoj ®i¾ek
On the surface, the basic thesis of Christopher Lasch's The
Culture of Narcissism does not seem in the least bit "scandalous"
and, if read from a certain point of view, may even appear
to be another example of neo-conservative criticism of contemporary
authoritarian consumer society. Lasch attempts to lean on
the classical analysis contained in works by David Riesman
(The Lonely Crowd) and William Whyte (The Organization Man)
and show how, in late capitalism, what in Marxist terminology
is called "socially mandatory character" has received a new
form. That is to say, after the "autonomous" individual of
Protestant ethics and the "heteronomous" (Other-oriented)
individual of bureaucratic capitalism, a new narcissistic
type of individual is being formed, corresponding to the transition
to a "post-industrial" society. Given Lasch's evidently critical
attitude towards "Narcissus", his work could easily be categorised
as a neo-conservative rejection of contemporary hedonism and
the disintegration of authoritarian values. But the "Lasch
scandal" is connected with something else; he defined his
project as leftist and radically democratic; he proposed that
the contemporary left had surrendered defence of the family
and patriarchal authority to (neo-)conservatism too soon.
According to Lasch, today's conformist type is in fact the
"anti-authoritarian" Narcissus, who mocks the family and rejects
patriarchal authority. For this reason, if the left wants
to establish an active alternative to the existing situation,
it must begin to deal with all these ideas. This entirely
changes the view which laid the foundations for the New Left
in the west and whose purest expression is without doubt Marcuse's
Eros and Civilization. According to this view, revolution
is expressed in the surpassing of the family as a mediator
of patriarchal authority and in the re-affirmation of Narcissus,
blended with the world. It is easy to imagine what polemical
reactions were triggered by this thesis; it is rejected by
both the majority of feminists, who understand it as a concealed
re-affirmation of patriarchy, and by a broad range of the
liberal New Left.
Participants in the cultural debates triggered by The Culture
of Narcissism were quick to forget the fact that the notion
of narcissism is not merely an abstract moral idea but an
accurate notion with a precisely defined role in the theory
of psychoanalysis. Lasch takes from Otto Kernberg's standard
work Borderline Conditions and Pathological Narcissism in
particular. For this reason, we must start with a summary
of Kernberg's basic theses and place the discussion of pathological
narcissism (PN) and borderline states into an appropriate
historical context.
What historical experience resulted in the theory of the borderline
as a special clinical entity? Back in the 1940s and particularly
in the 1950s, American psychoanalysts encountered a growing
number of cases which eluded any classification based on the
distinction between neurosis and psychosis. On the one hand,
it was evident that these were not cases of psychosis (the
individuals in question could still participate in society,
sometimes very successfully, and "functioned" very well in
general) and obviously could not be associated with the "loss
of a sense of reality" or "madness" (in the ordinary sense).
On the other hand, they were not cases of neurosis (hysteria
and obsession) either, at least not in the usual sense, for
the patients displayed a whole range of psychotic symptoms:
paranoid ideas, neurotic repression substituted with more
"primitive" defence mechanisms (split, denial of certain aspects
of reality, etc.) and, particularly, pathologically accentuated
narcissism (since even Freud described neurosis as a narcissistic
disorder, his case of "President Schreber" can in fact be
interpreted as a narcissistic defence against homosexuality;
because homosexuality is completely unacceptable for his narcissistic
self-image, Schreber can come to terms with it only if he
assumes the role of a passive sexual partner of God Himself,
who selected him to conceive a new mankind). This was the
basic rift, the fundamental "impossible encounter", at the
very outset of borderline theory: the well-established classification
or axis was shattered and violated, the axis whose one end
is the "over-adjusted" hysteric that exaggeratedly identifies
himself with social order, which causes his suppressed instinctive
substance to strike back in the form of symptoms, while the
other is the "maladjusted" psychotic who wilfully excludes
himself from (social symbolic) reality. All of a sudden, we
are faced with the unbelievable phantom of a psychotic who
"functions" perfectly. Naturally, these cases were at first
excluded as exceptions, deviations from the rule, but it soon
transpired that these borderline exceptions between neurosis
and psychosis were the rule and that, unlike traditional cases
of neurosis and psychosis, they were far from exceptional
in everyday practice.
A new clinical definition of borderline disorder was gradually
formed, along with its correlate "pathological narcissism";
exceptional borderline phenomena were given an independent
theoretical consistency which, at the diagnostic level, is
defined by the following features:
1. "Free" unattached anxiety.
2. Polysymptomatic neurosis, or a range of symptoms incompatible
in "classical" neurosis (hysterical conversions, "classical"
symptoms of obsession, polyphobia, "dissociation reactions",
impulsive neurosis, pathological hypochondria, paranoid ideas).
3. "Polymorphically perverse" sexual tendencies (promiscuity,
experimenting with "new forms", fear of an emotionally over-strenuous
commitment that would "curtail" one's freedom).
The unsystematic features of polysymptomatic neurosis, the
impression of randomly accumulated symptoms which are not
derived from any unified subjective existential position and
which seem to be only partly connected – this lack of any
system is not due to our incomplete approach but is characteristic
of the disjointed or "dispersed" borderline subject whose
individual symptomatic complexes are "held together" only
by (a Hegelian) abstract negativity of undefined unattached
anxiety. Unlike positive connection, this anxiety renders
only unconnectedness positive; the anxious "feeling of emptiness"
signifies that the subject has failed to unify or "totalise"
himself into a homogenous existential being. The third characteristic
of borderline, "polymorphically perverse" sexuality, exposes
the effects of the "dispersed" totalised subjective structure
in sexuality. The fact that the borderline is connected with
the un-unified, "unformed" Ego is confirmed by structural
analysis; Kernberg defines four basic features of the borderline
subject:
1. Different signs of the weakness of the Ego (the difference
between the "strong" and "weak" Ego is naturally characteristic
of American psychoanalysis): a low anxiety "tolerance threshold"
(in comparison with a "normal" individual); less significant
problems (social failure, the subject tells jokes that fail
to amuse and hears sarcastic remarks about his or her person)
can cause extreme anxiety and depression; insufficient control
over one's own instinctive reactions (the subject "cannot
control himself", succumbs to his impulses); inability to
sublimate (which in fact is only another aspect of the above);
the subject is no stranger to "important" achievements, which
are merely a means to satisfy a "lower" aim (in high social
circles, the subject can boast merit and considerable knowledge
– nevertheless, he gives the impression that his only motivation
is social success and that, in reality, he "does not care
about it at all"…).
2. Regression to primary mental forms: the subject's mentality
is dominated by associations and superficial details which
are beyond "rational" thinking. But again, there is more to
it. On the surface, borderline subjects are completely capable
of rational thinking; nevertheless, their behaviour and emotions
follow two completely different sets of logic. For example,
although he is completely aware that a person close to him
is not an enemy and holds nothing against him, some "primitive"
conclusion, which is, for example, based on a paranoid interpretation
of a casual smile or similarity to another (hostile) individual,
convinces the subject that this person is the worst of his
enemies (this regression is best carried out by means of projective
tests).
3."Regression" to primary defence mechanisms: the main defence
mechanism in a "normal", "mature" person is suppression (the
fully-developed Ego integrates and unifies one's mental life,
and a message which is unsuitable for this unified framework
is suppressed or pushed from one's awareness), while in a
borderline subject, the Ego is not strong enough to perform
this integrational role and is replaced by primitive defence
mechanisms which destroy the integrity of the Ego: split,
projection, denial of reality.
Here, special attention must be paid to how, by employing
some kind of paranoid construct, these "regressive" defence
mechanisms prevent both the unity of the Ego and psychological
unity. When, for example, a borderline subject considers somebody
both "good" and "bad", he solves this dichotomy with a simple
time split: for a while, the object is "good", after which
the subject goes to the other extreme and the object becomes
"bad", which does not result in any sense of contradiction,
because the subject's Ego is not sufficiently integrated;
he can carry several contradictory libidinal beliefs which
are expressed one after another. (The best known example of
such a tendency is the attitude of the "little man" towards
politics, in terms of rapidly changing contradictory libidinal
opinions: at one point, "politics" is a "big thing", awakening
patriotic feelings; at another point, it is a "whore", a sphere
of corruption and intrigue. The "little man" does not attempt
to integrate these two beliefs.) A "normal" subject would
suppress or eject one of the contrary beliefs from his awareness:
if according to my integrated normative system I hate somebody,
I must suppress the love I feel for this person, and vice
versa.
4. The last feature, which is already contained in the previous
one, is a pathological relationship towards the object, which
is in fact an inability to integrate different beliefs (the
"good" and the "bad") into a single image of the object. In
this respect, it is possible to describe the basic characteristic
of the borderline subject: he always gives the impression
that he experiences the other as a "puppet", that he is incapable
of a proper inter-subjective relationship. Inter-subjectivity
implies accurate knowledge and acceptance of the other as
a contradictory unity of different opinions; this contradiction
gives depth to the other, a feeling of boundlessness, which
plays an important role in the experience of the "personality".
In a borderline subject, we are dealing with the als-ob-personality:
on the surface, everything seems to be "normal", the subject
respects all the rules of the inter-subjective game; he nevertheless
gives the impression that he is not a "living personality",
that he treats us "superficially", that everything is like
a piece of puppet theatre.
The only thing still left is genealogical analysis, in relation
to which I wish to limit myself to a single comment regarding
sexuality. Although the borderline subject is capable of "normal"
genital sexuality, a detailed analysis reveals that in his
libidinal economy his seemingly genital sexual activity is
dominated and defined by pre-genital, oral and anal logic.
The very sexual act is mostly understood as an act of violence
and display of aggression; the woman feels humiliated and
exploited while, if the woman dominates, the man feels endangered
and fears that the woman will "devour" him and that he will
lose his identity and autonomy.
"Pathological narcissism", as a correlate of the borderline
in addition to all borderline symptoms, displays the "pathological",
"big" Ego. Therefore, there is a weak Ego regressing to the
primary forms of thinking and primary defence mechanisms and
establishing a pathological relationship towards objects,
but all these weaknesses are "compensated" for with the "big
Ego", a pathological construct which, in place of the "normal"
Ego, performs the function of integration. Let us begin with
a diagnosis or, to be more precise, a phenomenological description
of "pathological Narcissus":
– Upon first contact, PN appears more adjusted to the environment
than the borderline subject; he "functions" well and sometimes
even "distinguishes" himself, or dominates his surroundings.
Nevertheless, we soon come across a contradiction: PN despises
and exploits people, seeing in them nothing more than a tool
for his own affirmation. At the same time, he is completely
dependent on their acknowledgement and admiration, and exists
only because of the reputation which he enjoys among his fellow
human beings. He distinguishes himself socially, playing the
role of a powerful, cynical, efficient and witty individual
without superfluous illusions; at the same time, the slightest
derision or some other social "failure" drives him to a state
of traumatic depression. The Hegelian dialectic of recognition
is here brought to its opposite: the "master" is a slave to
the recognition of his slave and constantly anxiously observes
the effect his complacency has on the slave. The slightest
sign that the slave has seen through him, that he is secretly
laughing at him, can bring him down. Unlike the traditional
master, who "thinks that he is recognised for the master since
he already is a master as it is", PN is the paradox of a reflected
master who knows that his position is secured only by the
recognition of other people. For this reason, he subordinates
everything to his public "appearance". This basic contradiction
is the source of other PN features:
– A complete inability to empathise: PN can never really "enter
the other", "feel" with him, experience him in terms of "personality
depth" or subjectivity abyss. All people in his surroundings
fall into one of the following three categories:
(1) The ideal other, those from whom he expects narcissistic
recognition and who, in PN's subjective economy, function
as an extension of his own "big Ego" (as a rule, these are
powerful, influential and famous individuals);
(2) "enemies" or "conspirators" who represent a threat to
his narcissistic affirmation;
(3) the rest, the "crowd", "puppets", suckers who exist only
to be used and abandoned. Even when PN develops an attachment
to the ideal other, the relationship is not particularly deep
and can easily be broken or demoted to the level of the "crowd"
(if the ideal other experiences failure) or the "enemy" (if
the ideal other humiliates PN's narcissism or ignores him).
Relationships are easily broken and established anew; the
ideal other today is the "enemy" tomorrow because Narcissus
cannot establish a relationship with the other at the subjective
level.
Evidently, PN takes the availability of other people for granted
and finds it completely natural that people should be treated
ruthlessly and used for his own narcissistic pleasure. For
this reason, PN often gives the impression of profound indifference,
coldness and selfishness, hidden behind a mask of brilliance.
Narcissus attempts to charm and seduce us; he astonishes with
eloquence, enthusiasm and sexiness. Nevertheless, behind it
all, a cruel and selfish mind can be sensed. As long as he
expects narcissistic gain from us, he is full of enthusiasm,
but once "we are no longer of any interest" to him, his incredible
charm immediately turns into complete indifference.
– It is evident from the above that PN is incapable of forming
a sincere attachment to another person, and of depending on
him or her in terms of commitment, obligation, engagement,
trust and dedication. PN is a slave to his "success" in the
eyes of other people. He depends on their recognition, but
this kind of dependence cannot be mistaken for trust in and
dedication to the other. Narcissus wants to take advantage
of the other, gain as much narcissistic profit from him or
her, and even when he greatly admires the other, he does that
exclusively for narcissistic reasons. For this reason, he
always preserves a fundamental mistrust in people; he is pathologically
afraid of being excessively dependent on them, of opening
up "too much" and becoming too attached to them. Therefore,
in sexuality, he prefers short-term "cold" relationships which
do not represent an excessive "emotional burden" and which
"allow him to breathe".
– Every Narcissus is intrinsically convinced that he is an
exception, an "outcast". Externally, he respects the "rules
of the game", he is a conformist; in reality, he "does not
take the game seriously", he "plays it" only to escape punishment
and become successful in society. PN is even convinced that
everybody else does the same: life in society is a game, everybody
wears a mask, everybody is a criminal hiding behind a conformist
appearance and thinking only about how to exploit and trick
other people. One must be smart; one must know how to lie
low and adjust.
– PN pathologically fears even the smallest failure, such
as loneliness, old age and illness. He takes care of his body
(jogging being narcissistic exercise par excellence!), tries
to stay "forever young" and remain the centre of attention.
He is prepared to do everything "not to get lost in the grey
crowd of the average", because he believes that there are
only two kinds of people in the world: those who have made
it and the remaining "crowd".
– PN is incapable of true sadness. When faced with the loss
of a loved one, he breaks into a helpless rage. The loss is
simply unacceptable and unbearable to him; it is an assault
on his narcissism. He is incapable of "containing" this wild
rage and turning it into quiet mourning.
– Finally the last feature, which brings us back to the initial
paradox. PN simply cannot enjoy himself, because pleasure
is completely alien to him and exteriorised in the other.
He finds pleasure when other people acknowledge his pleasure
(a typical example would be a "heart-breaker" who boasts about
his conquests, while in reality he does not care because the
only thing that matters to him is the recognition he gains
from other people with his exploits – he enjoys himself as
much as he thinks others enjoy themselves). This subjective
economy results in a curious "short circuit": the final aim
of being successful is not what can be gained by it but the
success itself as social fact. For this reason, PN is never
"with himself" but is always "exteriorised", which manifests
itself, for example, as an "inner sense of emptiness" and
"loss of identity", which drives him into even more frenetic
activity.
Before we begin with structural analysis, another observation
derived from the phenomenological description of PN must be
mentioned. It is not difficult to recognise in PN an "average
American", with his paradoxical "conformist individualism"
(individualism as a social conformist perception") and cult
of social "success" at any cost, etc. Sometimes we even get
the impression that Kernberg is not describing a type generated
by means of generalised clinical experiences but a caricatured
model found in films or literature. This observation in no
way diminishes the value of Kernberg's analysis, however,
because it is based on a naïve distinction between "real life"
and ideological "clichés", presuming that in "real life" individuals
do not imitate models which are, in a pure and distilled form,
offered by popular art. Therefore, the ideological construct
of the "big Ego" is in no way merely a "reflection" of real
processes but is actively formed and structured by the very
"real" subjective constitution of an individual.
Consequently, structural analysis shows that the pathological
"big Ego", as the central integrational aspect of PN, is a
result of the fusion or merging of three elements: (1) the
real Ego (the subject recognising himself as a special, real
being); (2) the ideal Ego (an idealised self-image nourished
by the subject); (3) the ideal object (the ideal other, a
dear person, experienced by PN as an extension or part of
his own "big Ego"). This merging diminishes the critical distance
between the real Ego, the ideal Ego and the object, which
in a "normal" subject is a motivating force for constant improvement
and approximation to the ideal. Therefore, in PN, the real
Ego is directly blended with the ideal Ego, while the idealised
Other loses all negative characteristics and appears as an
omnipotent "good other", as the subject's secret guardian
who takes care of his wellbeing and provides narcissistic
satisfaction. The critical component of PN takes a "degenerate"
form of the horrifying, blind, cruel, paranoid and threatening
force of the Superego, as an "evil fate" embodied in the "enemy"
into whom the subject projects his own aggression.
With this we have touched upon the crucial dimension concealed
behind PN: in reality, "pathological Narcissus" is a helpless,
terrified subject, a victim of a cruel and uncontrollable
Superego who is completely lost and faced with impossible
demands on the part of his environment and his own aggression.
This is, in fact, a pre-Oedipal situation, dominated by an
omnipotent, protective and caring mother in the form of the
"ideal object" on the one hand and the aggressive uncontrollable
environment on the other. The narcissistic "big Ego" is in
fact a reactive formation – a reaction to an unresolved and
unsymbolised conflict situation. The only way for the subject
to endure this situation is to build an "imaginary supplement",
the "big Ego", which is blended with the omnipotent, idealised,
motherly guardian. Now we can reply to a previous remark according
to which the borderline phenomenon proves the outdatedness
of the Oedipus complex and of classical psychoanalytical methods
as such: "… the problem of borderline is not the exaggerated
repression of instinctive forces, which would cause neurotic
reactions in the form of the symptomatic 'resurfacing of what
has been suppressed', but the weak Ego – the fact that the
patient's self has not developed to the level where it could
perform its integrational function…" The answer to this observation
would be that the Oedipus complex is still very topical because
the unsolved issue of Oedipus as such underlines the borderline
and PN problem; the subject has failed to "internalise" paternal
law, which is the only path to transformation – or, in Hegelian
terminology, the Aufhebung or abolition/surpassing – of the
cruel, "anal" and sadistic Superego into the pacifying "inner
law" of the ideal Ego.
Kernberg himself points out that the borderline disorder in
PN can be found almost exclusively in families where the "father
has been absent" (not meaning "empirical absence" but the
fact that the father did not perform his paternal "role" and
did not function as an embodiment of law), because of which
the child's life was controlled by the mother in a double
phantasmic image of the "good", protective and caring mother
and the "evil" mother imposing "impossible" demands on the
child and threatening to "devour" him. Because of the "father's
absence", the child is incapable of doing away with or resolving
the contradiction between the protective and threatening other,
and of dialectically "surpassing" it with an inner law, with
the name of the father and the paternal ideal of the Ego,
in which, having been transformed, both initial aspects are
"synthesised": the subject symbolically identifies himself
with the name of the father, the law loses its terrifying
Superego alienation and, at the same time, the "critical"
dimension is preserved and can act as a "punishing" element
(the inner "voice of conscience").
According to the analysis, the narcissistic "self-love" and
the libidinal investment in the Ego conceals rather than replaces
the subject's incredible hostility towards himself and his
uncontrolled aggression, and the immense anxiety felt towards
the object; the subject invests libidinal energy in the self
because he is incredibly afraid of the object and is incapable
of establishing a normal relationship with it. Behind indifference
towards and contempt for the object (i.e. the Other Subject),
there is the fear of establishing contact with and the inability
to surrender to the object: the "big Ego" is, in fact, a mask
for its opposite. We must not forget that borderline and PN
theory was developed by the "traditional" and not "revisionist"
neo-analytical trend of American psychoanalysis. Despite all
the revisionist claims that classical psychoanalysis is outdated,
this "traditional" trend still offers the most insightful
description of the mental constitution of an individual living
in late capitalist society, a description which far supersedes
the ideological phrases (of the neo-romantics) relating to
the "consumer society individual".
Borderline and PN theory is undoubtedly based on Freud's
second topic (ego-superego-id); the main contribution of this
topic, which replaced the consciousness/the pre-conscious/the
unconscious topic, is evident in the context of Freud's texts
on narcissism, written in the second decade of the 20th century.
Accordingly, the Ego is no longer only a rational element
representing reality and conscious control, etc. over the
obscure subconscious instincts; it is a very likely "pathology"
of the Ego itself; the Ego is subject to unconscious libidinal
investments, which in turn corresponds with the notion of
narcissism. Equally, the Superego is not some bright force
of moral law constraining barbaric instincts and managing
them with difficulty, but is usually connected with the Id
and can be as cruel and "irrational" as the barbaric law which
embodies the destructive "deadly instinct". Nevertheless,
Freud's second topic also allows a different "conformist"
reading which emphasises the Ego as a synthesising element
which "rationally" harmonises the demands of reality and the
Id. This reading prevailed in the 1940s, and resulted in the
transformation of American psychoanalysis into a conformist
ego-psychology. Accordingly, the aim of psychoanalysis is
the strengthening of the patient's Ego to enable him to adjust
to (social) reality without irrational constraints. Naturally,
the distinction between "normal" and "pathological" narcissism
is indelibly marked by the tradition of ego-psychology, because
the notion of "normal narcissism" is based on the "strong"
Ego capable of performing its integrational role. For this
reason, Kernberg lists the following four functions of the
"mature" Ego:
– to distinguish the Ego and its subjectively experienced
content from objective reality.
– to integrate ("good" and "bad") characteristics into a united
image of the object.
– to interiorise and de-personalise the punishing Superego
element, transforming it into the ideal Ego.
– to sublimate instincts.
A person with a "mature Ego" possesses a normal sense of reality
and a realistic understanding of objects when he replaces
the archaic, anal, sadistic and personalised Superego with
a de-personalised moral ideal Ego and inner law, and when
he successfully renders primitive instincts sublime. This
would be a case of "normal narcissism" – a justified investment
of libidinal energy in the Ego and a narcissistic contentment
with one's own personality, which is not "pathological". The
borderline personality remains halfway between psychosis and
the normal Ego: its attitude towards objects is pathological;
the Superego remains at the primitive sadomasochistic level;
instincts are not sublimate; and the Ego is not integrated
enough to perform the integrational role. In reaction to this
weakness, the pathological integrational "big Ego" is formed.
This difference between normal and "pathological" narcissism
is undoubtedly real, for it is confirmed by medical cases.
But the problem is that its theoretical implications lack
a notion of the symbolic and of the need for symbolic order.
Briefly, the difference between "normal" and "pathological"
narcissism cannot be theoretically explained without referring
to the symbolic, because the features which distinguish "normal"
from "pathological" narcissism (ability to form relationships,
dependence on the other, ability to mourn, integration of
"good" and "bad" characteristics into an integral image of
the object) point to the importance of the symbolic. The fate
of the subject's Ego and its "normality" or "pathology" is
not decided by the Ego itself but by the subject's attitude
towards the symbolic, due to which the formation of the "normal"
Ego is a secondary result of the "interiorisation" of symbolic
law.
Let us turn to PN's inability to depend on the other and to
nourish feelings of commitment to and trust in the other.
This dependence or commitment is what Lacan calls "symbolic
connection", pact or engagement – "giving one's word" to someone.
This does not involve emotions or feelings, sincerity, empathy
and compassion – PN has plenty of these. His problem lies
in the fact that a promise does not commit him internally,
does not place an obligation on him. He regards promises,
bonds and pacts as "rules of the game" which must be observed
on the outside but which do not represent an existential commitment.
In fact, PN "feels free"; he does not know an intrinsically
valid law; he recognises only the external "rules of the game".
This also explains the well-known pressing feeling of "inner
emptiness" and "loss of one's own identity"; what he lacks
are not images that would give him an imaginary identity but
a "bond" that would place him in the inter-subjective symbolic
network. In other words (if the "metaphorical " description
is replaced with more expert terminology): pathological Narcissus
simply lacks the performative dimension of speaking. This
statement may at first seem paradoxical, because PN strives
for "effect" rather than for the "content" of what is said,
the whole point of his speaking being to assert his brilliance
and to enchant or seduce the person spoken to. In this respect,
we must take account of the key differences (interpreted completely
wrongly by Marcuse in his criticism of Austin's supposed "behaviourism")
between the performative (illocutive) and pragmatic (perlocutive)
aspects of the speech act. The performative aspect is not
the same as the pragmatic "effect" of a statement. Let us
take an extremely basic example: if I say to somebody in trouble
"I promise I will help you", this is the performative aspect,
or the very act of promise, which I thereby perform. I gave
my word to somebody; there is a new symbolic relationship
between us and I am obliged to help regardless of whether
I will indeed help him. The pragmatic aspect of this example
would encompass the "actual" effects of the promised act:
the other will undoubtedly behave differently if he believes
my promise; he will feel gratitude and respect towards me,
and so on. And this is PN's problem: he is a master of the
pragmatic power of speech, he knows how to use speech as a
tool for the manipulation, seduction and enchantment of others;
at the same time, he does not keep his word and keeps his
distance from it, as if it were the tool of manipulation itself.
What precisely do we mean when we say that PN is not capable
of establishing a relationship with the other (i.e. subject)
as such – that he is not capable of real inter-subjectivity?
This issue can be approached by means of description theory
or, to be more precise, by means of Kripke's criticism of
this theory and his rejection of the possibility of reducing
a name to a set of positive characteristics that an object
must feature in order to be denotative of the name in question
– in other words, his rejection of the possibility of replacing
a name with a description of a set of characteristics (see
Saul Kripke, Naming and Necessity, 1979).
PN could be described as a subject behaving in accordance
with the theory of description; he sees the other reduced
to a set of descriptive characteristics, particularly those
which meet his narcissistic needs. In other words, he sees
the object in terms of the gain he can receive from him or
her: he loves a woman because… (she has beautiful hair and
legs, she has a great sense of humour and is interested in
the same films as he is). PN is therefore the person who answers
the woman's eternally excruciating question: "Why do you love
me?" with a detailed description of reasons: because of your
beautiful eyes, because of your wit, etc. The other side of
this reduction to a set of descriptive virtues is that as
soon as the subject loses one of these virtues, she also loses
her libidinal status and becomes dull. The logic of "pathological
Narcissus" is clearly reflected in the often-heard remark:
"My fiancée is never late for a date, otherwise she would
no longer be my fiancée!" The fiancée is reduced to a set
of positive features, which include the fact that "she is
never late for a date". The moment she loses this virtue,
that is, the moment she is late, she also loses her status
and is no longer a fiancée. It is not necessary to point out
how far this kind of attitude is from a real attitude towards
the other as such. It is immediately evident that an answer
to the question "Why do you love me?", which consists of a
well-defined list, is a rude and scornful insult and a direct
negation of love. By it, the other is "objectivised" and denied
existence as a subject. The only true answer to the question
would be: "I do not know why, there is something in you, some
x, something that gives a miraculous lustre to all your virtues…".
Proper "love" entails a feeling that one would still love
a person if he or she lost all his or her positive features.
In other words, the beloved is "set in an abyss", all of his
or her "positive" characteristics are trans-substantiated,
they glow in some impalpable void and are in fact a "positivisation"
of the void itself – of that x ("object small a" in Lacan's
terminology).
The same theory could be approached from the point of Lacan's
distinction between the logic of the sentences: "tu es celui
qui me suivra" and "tu es celui qui me suivras" (see Lacan,
Le Séminaire III, Paris, 1981, p. XXII). The definition of
the subordinate clause radically changes its status depending
on whether the verb in the subordinate sentence is in the
second or third person. If in the third person, the sentence
is about a simple statement, a description of (one's) characteristics.
If the verb is in the second person, however, the sentence
is no longer merely about a description but a performative
"appointment of a mandate", a symbolic engagement, bond and
obligation – you are the one who must follow me (even if in
reality you do not). In the first case ("tu es celui qui me
suivra") one simply made a mistake – one associated the other
with an erroneous characteristic and it turns out that the
other is not the one who will follow. In the other case ("tu
es celui qui me suivras"), you will remain that who will follow
me, who should have followed me, because the fact that "you
will follow me" remains a symbolic bond, a "mandate" defining
your inter-subjective status. The fact that you did not follow
me does not change this status but means that you simply did
not keep your promise and commitment. Here we can return to
the statement about the fiancée: the mandate and commitment
of the "fiancée" naturally implies a whole set of positive
characteristics, including the fact that the person who is
granted this mandate will not be late for a date (leaving
aside to what extent certain cultural environments regard
being late for a date as proof of "female charm" and part
of the game), which represent a symbolic definition (Lacan's
S1 mathem) superseding and totalising a chain of positive
virtues (S2). This means that even if she is late, she will
remain my fiancée because we are bonded with a symbolic pact
that is beyond petty narcissistic disappointments. With this,
we have reached the realistically known possibilities for
the integration of "good" and "bad" characteristics into an
integrated image of the object; this is more probable if founded
on a symbolic integrating characteristic or a symbolic "beyond
good and evil" definition – in other words, beyond the imaginary
opposition of "good" and "bad" characteristics. The united
or integrated image of a "fiancée" does not lie in the simple
"picturing of the same object with both good and bad characteristics".
A unifying symbol is called for, a symbolic definition which
defines the person of the "fiancée" beyond her (imaginary)
characteristics, which preserves its value even if she disappointed
us regarding the positive features implied by the mandate
or definition. The integration of the image of the object
as a collection of his or her "imaginary" characteristics
implies some unimaginable aspect, a symbolic designation of
a performative nature which cannot be justified by means of
the object's positive characteristics.
On this basis, PN's other characteristics can be explained,
such as his inability to mourn. Mourning is a symbolic act
par excellence by which the lost object is interiorised (aufgehoben)
in a symbolic ritual. For this reason, mourning implies a
calming down, pacification, coming to terms with the loss,
and the impotent rage triggered by the loss is transformed
into a respectful admiration of the lost object (proof of
this is the confusion or comic effect when, in the middle
of the mourning ritual, one notices that the object is not
really lost and that the "body is still alive", as in the
case of the funeral mass for Tom Sawyer and Huck Finn). PN
is incapable of transforming loss-induced rage into mourning.
It is more probable that he will forget about the lost object
or discover that he did not really care for it at all, thereby
investing his libidinal energy in a new object. But in order
not to get lost in the re-listing of characteristics, let
us return to the decisive feature which is the source of the
rest: of fundamental importance for PN is the coincidental
integration of symbolic law which represents the name of the
father or the paternal ideal of the Ego, the coincidental
symbolical identification with the ideal of the Ego (as a
result of a "normal" resolution of the Oedipus complex), the
making-up for the paternal ideal with the pre-Oedipal "sadomasochistic",
"anal", "maternal" Superego. Although in a typically American
"naïve" theoretical form, Lasch was the first to draw attention
to the fact that the making-up for the ideal of the Ego with
the "anal" Superego was the basic characteristic of late capitalistic
"bureaucratic" society; behind the superficial "breakdown
of (paternal) authority" and "permissiveness" significant
of the psychological constitution of Narcissus, there is the
rise of a much more "irrational" and "cruel" pre-Oedipal "archaic"
Superego.
Nevertheless, an over-hasty invocation of the "archaic Superego"
leaves the door open to Jungian obscurity. For this reason,
a purely conceptual level must be maintained, and the Superego,
the ideal of the ego (Ich-Ideal) and the ideal Ego (Idealich),
a trinity which corresponds with Real-Symbolic-Imaginary,
kept separate. The characteristic that distinguishes the ideal
of the Ego from the ideal Ego is undoubtedly identification.
The ideal of the Ego and the ideal Ego are two modes of identification,
symbolic and imaginary – or, according, to Lacan's mathems:
I(A) and i(a) identification with the S1 "unary feature",
with the predominator in the other, as represented by the
subject, and identification with the mirror image. In contrast,
according to J.–A. Miller the Superego excludes any kind of
identification, and is an irreducibly alien, non-internalised,
traumatic, ungraspable and threatening order, and therefore
something real in the sense of the impossibly unsymbolised.
As far as the difference between the ideal of the ego and
the ideal Ego is concerned, it suffices to remember Lacan's
definition of the ideal of the self as a point of symbolic
identification from Le Séminaire XI; it is a point in the
other, from which the subject sees himself in a form worthy
of love, from which he is seen as worthy of the other's love.
For example, we have fulfilled a difficult task, sacrificed
our own direct interests and fulfilled our duty, proved our
loyalty on some higher level – in this case we feel some inner
contentment that we have risen to the "level of our mission".
Although this undoubtedly implies an instance of narcissistic
pleasure, because "we like ourselves", the example cannot
be connected with imaginary narcissism, because it contains
an element of symbolic identification with objects, ideals
and the law which we abide by, all of which are beyond the
narcissistic interest of the Ego because they are part of
the symbolic order in which we are integrated. The "feeling
of contentment" is our "reward" for subordinating ourselves
to a higher cause, for sacrificing our narcissistic interest.
Narcissism contained within this "inner contentment" is of
secondary significance and is mediated by the symbolic.
Based on this, examples of higher theoretical consistency
in Kernberg's distinction between "normal" and "pathological"
narcissism can be drawn. In "normal" narcissism, the narcissistic
imaginary identification i(a) is "mediated" by symbolic identification
I(A), such as symbolic identification with the name of the
father – the paternal ideal of the Ego is the one that makes
up and regulates imaginary narcissistic satisfaction. "Pathological"
Narcissus lacks the ideal of the ego element, the symbolic
identification i(a), and the image of the Ego as such, without
finding support in I(A), performs the "integrational" role.
And this is what must be focused on in the "big Ego" characteristic
of PN.
According to Lasch's basic thesis, which has been confirmed
by the clinical analysis of the constitution of "pathological
Narcissus", the celebrated "breakdown of paternal authority"
or the paternal ideal of the Ego is only one side of the process.
Its other side is the emergence of a much more "irrational"
and "cruel" law, the maternal Superego, which does not prohibit
but orders, demands pleasure (by means of a constant grasping
for "social success", domination over other people and their
exploitation with the aim of confirming one's own narcissism)
and which punishes "failure" much more severely than the "voice
of conscience" of the ideal of the ego, with unbearable anxiety
and extreme masochistic self-humiliation that can even lead
to the loss of one's own identity. What we are dealing with
in "pathological Narcissus" is i(a) directly based on the
cruel, crazy, "irrational" and "anal" Superego, instead of
i(a) "mediated" by I(A). Lasch connects this process with
certain fundamental changes in late capitalist social relations
– in other words, with the onset of "bureaucratic society".
On the surface, this thesis may seem paradoxical: "bureaucratic
man" is usually envisaged as the exact opposite of Narcissus,
as the "man of the apparatus", an anonymous individual dedicated
to the organisation and reduced to the status of a cog in
the bureaucratic machine. But according to Lasch, the psychological
type, or a libidinal economy which corresponds to contemporary
bureaucratic society, is in fact "pathological Narcissus",
who does not take the social "rules of the game" seriously
and who is an unrelenting outcast interested only in manipulating
other people to attain narcissistic satisfaction. The solution
to this paradox lies in the fact that there exist three rather
than two stages in the development of what can be called the
"libidinal constitution of the subject in bourgeois society":
the individual of Protestant ethics; the heteronomous "man
of organisation"; and "pathological Narcissus". Lasch's contribution
lies in the fact that he was the first to clearly describe
the transition from the second to the third stage. There is
still talk of a phenomenon called the downfall or breakdown
of Protestant ethics. Two classical descriptions of this process
are The Organization Man by William Whyte and The Lonely Crowd
by David Riesman. Riesman introduces a fundamental notional
contradiction of the "autonomous" (self-directed) and "heteronomous"
(Other-directed) individual. The "self-directed" individual
is the basic type of the 19th and early 20th centuries. He
is the individual of "Protestant ethics", whose basic principles
are individual responsibility and individual initiative ("Help
thyself and God will help thee!"). Each individual answers
before God and must not follow the blind crowd; the inner
satisfaction of having done one's duty is more important than
the reputation and success enjoyed with other people. For
this reason, the fundamental characteristic of Protestant
ethics is the difference between legality and morality: the
former consists of social rules and external laws; the latter
is guided by an inner law, the "voice of conscience" or, in
other words, the internalised paternal ideal of the Ego. Naturally,
this implies an ideology that fits in with liberal capitalism,
the society of the "struggle against everything" – this society
is guided by the "invisible hand" of the market, everyone
should follow their own interests and thus contribute to the
welfare of the whole of society as much as possible.
With the onset of bureaucratic corporate capitalism, this
individual autonomy was lost and the heteronomous principle
prevailed; the "non-conformity" of Protestant ethics has been
replaced by an individual striving to attain recognition from
the social group to which he belongs. The ideal of the ego
radically changes its content and, in a way, becomes "exteriorised",
consisting of the expectations of one's group and surroundings.
The source of moral satisfaction is no longer a sense that,
despite pressures from the environment, one has remained faithful
to oneself and fulfilled one's duty. On the contrary, it is
the sense that one has given priority to being loyal to one's
group. From the point of view of the ideal of the Ego, the
individual observes himself with the eyes of the people around
him; he sees himself the way he should be in order to be worthy
of the group's affection. In the conflict between the individual
and the institution, the individual must let go, renounce
his worthless independence and find his place in the social
organism to which he belongs and which gives meaning to his
life – the greatest value is the sense of belonging. The "invisible
hand" of the market has been replaced by the "invisible hand"
of the institution. The individual's resistance to the institution
is a result of his narrow narcissistic delusion rather than
anything else. The institution does not want to harm him;
it is just that the deluded individual is not always aware
of that. This does not only change the "content" of the ideal
but also its status: it is not that, in the case of the heteronomous
individual, individualism has been replaced by conformity
but that the ability to adjust to the demands of the environment
and respond quickly to the ever new and changing demands of
the environment is a value as such, or even a supreme value.
In the 1940s and 50s, "heteronomous ethics" was promoted by
a series of Hollywood films. The extreme example quoted by
Whyte is The Caine Mutiny (based on H. Wouk's novel of the
same title). In brief, the story is about a warship called
Caine, which is in danger of sinking because its crazy paranoid
captain is incapable of issuing the right commands. He is
replaced by a group of officers who take over the command
and save the ship. Later, on shore, the mutinous officers
must justify their actions in court and prove that the captain
was indeed insane and incompetent. They succeed in doing this
with the help of their lawyer, but at a reception where the
mutinous crew members celebrate their victory, the lawyer
tells them that he defended them out of duty whereas, in reality,
he is ashamed of himself because they were in fact guilty.
One of the reasons why the captain became paranoid was that
the subordinate officers derided him instead of putting up
with his whims and striving to help him as considerately as
possible. In short, the officers bear the blame for the entire
incident because they displayed cynical mistrust instead of
dedication to the common cause. (The gallant paradox of the
lawyer character lies in the fact that it is his duty to defend
the officers, which corresponds to individualist ethics; from
his individual, "inner" ethical stand he is on the side of
"heteronomous" exteriorised ethics, which gives priority to
one's dedication to the institution. What we have here is
a perversion of an ordinary character who "externally" fakes
his loyalty to the institution while "internally" striving
to preserve his autonomous ethical stand.)
There is one constant in this process of the transformation
of Protestant ethics into the "heteronomous" ethics of "organisation
man". "Socially mandatory character" (if we may make use of
Marx' syntagm) is formed on the basis of symbolic identification
or an interiorised ideal of the Ego. The third stage described
by Lasch breaks through this framework: the form of the ideal
of the Ego is replaced by the narcissistic "big Ego"; it is
no longer the case of an individual forced to integrate the
demands of the environment constituted in the symbolic element
of the ideal of the Ego, but of a "Narcissus" who "does not
experience the game with sincerity" and who takes the rules
of the environment as the external "rules of the game". He
experiences "social pressure" completely differently, not
in terms of the ideal Ego but in terms of the "anal", "sadomasochistic"
Superego. And this is the key moment: today's society is no
less "repressive" than it was at the time of "organisation
man", the loyal servant of the institution. On the contrary,
the difference is that social demands no longer take the form
of the ideal of the ego, of an integrated and "interiorised"
symbolic code, but remain at the level of the pre-Oedipal
command of the Superego.
The basic feature of this third stage is that in the subjective
economy, the social "big Other", which is a network of socio-symbolic
relations faced by and capturing the subject, functions more
like a "mother-on-whom-the-satisfaction-of-one's-needs-depends",
representing Lacan's first image of the big Other. The demand
of the Other assumes the form of a command of the Superego
to find pleasure (in the form of "social success", etc.) under
the protective care of the motherly "big Other" as an extension
of the narcissistic "big Ego". The state of dependence characteristic
of the pre-Oedipal constellation, in which the satisfaction
of needs depends on the "whims of the Other", repeats itself
in the subject's relationship towards the socio-symbolic Other,
which increasingly appears as the Other-outside-law and could
therefore be termed "benevolent despotism".
The most distinct sign of this transformation is the substitution
of the right to punishment (and sentencing) with therapeutic
law: the subject is no longer guilty because he is not responsible
for his actions, which are a result of a plethora of psychological
and social circumstances. The role of the strict judge is
taken over by social care: the offender must be cured and
not punished, and suitable social and psychological circumstances
must be created that will not drive him to crime… An analogous
trend can be found in education: the aim of the educational
system is no longer the imparting of certain knowledge or
a certain system of rules of social behaviour to students.
This kind of school is nowadays considered an "alienated"
and "repressive" institution which takes no account of the
student's individual needs. On the contrary, the school should
enable the student to recognise and, in accordance with social
needs, direct and develop his creative potential; it should
create a space for the free expression of his personality.
At all levels of society, we find the cult of "authenticity":
one should cast away "masks", "alienated social roles" and
"repressive rules" and open the door to one's "true self"
in every sphere of creativity, from sports to religion, from
politics to sexuality, from work to hobbies, in order to turn
it into a sphere for the expression and affirmation of one's
"authentic" personality and for the development of one's creative
potentials. Lasch shows that this cult of "authenticity",
this cult of the free development of the "big Ego", free of
"masks" and "repressive" rules, is nothing less than a form
of its own opposite, of pre-Oedipal dependence, and that the
only path leading to the mastering of this dependence is identification
with a certain decentralised, alien aspect of the symbolic
law external to the Ego. The late bourgeois individualism
of the narcissistic "big Ego" merely seems to be a return
to the early bourgeois individualism of "Protestant ethics"
while, in reality, it implies a much greater dependence than
that of "organisation man". In addition to the inherent incompleteness
of his analytical conceptual apparatus, Lasch's weak point
lies in the fact that he does not supply a sufficient theoretical
definition of that turning point in the socio-economic reality
of late capitalism which corresponds to the transition of
"organisation man" to "pathological Narcissus". At the level
of discourse, this turning point is not difficult to determine:
it is the transformation of the bureaucratic capitalist society
of the 1940s and 50s into a society described as "permissive".
It entails a "post-industrial" process which, at this level,
has been described in terms of the "Third Wave" theory of
writers such as Toffler. Now we can finally return to the
key issue of the relationship between "pathological narcissism"
and borderline disorders. Unlike American medical practice,
which sets borderline closer to psychosis than neurosis (which
is due to an obsession with the "strong Ego" as a sign of
"normality", while the absence of this Ego immediately points
to psychosis), we must agree with J.–A. Miller, who says that
borderline is literally a "contemporary form of hysteria".
If "pathological Narcissus" represents the prevalent libidinal
constitution of late bourgeois "permissive" society, borderline
marks the point of its hysterisation, the point at which the
subject is faced with the already-described basic paradox
or contradiction of his PN. Miller connects the transformation
of hysteria into borderline disorder with scientific changes
in contemporary ideological everyday life – science in different
forms, ranging from experts whose advice and instructions
guide our entire life, including its most intimate aspects,
to micro-electronic gadgets offered en masse by industry,
which is increasingly becoming an inherent constituent of
the everyday Lebenswelt. This blending of Lebenswelt with
science radically undermines the very notion of Lebenswelt
as a field of everyday pre-scientific self-understanding and
pre-theoretical life practice, from which science derives
its meaning. An exemplary case would be Husserl's late attempt
to expose the rootedness of the scientific way of thinking
in the pre-scientific world of life practice – exemplary because
it is no longer possible today, since Lebenswelt has "lost
its innocence" and become inherently defined by science. Reference
to the pre-scientific Lebenswelt would today correspond with
reference to the pristine and unspoiled domestic environment
of Blut and Boden ideology. Husserl is entirely right when
he claims that it is possible to define science's signifying
horizon – in other words, a hermeneutic question to which
science replies with its activity only through references
to the pre-scientific Lebenswelt. In other words, it is impossible
to say that science replaces the original ground of life practice
with another (its own) signifying horizon or a hermeneutic
question. Science as such, in the strict hermeneutic sense
of the word, is unsignifying and as soon as it inherently
begins to encroach on the Lebenswelt, the whole loses its
meaning and we find ourselves in a void. In this sense, we
must also understand Miller's claim that there exist today
numerous proofs of the presence of science in the everyday
Lebenswelt, which in its basic dimension appears to be an
answer without a question:
"The history of our time adjusts to the predominant form of
knowledge: to science – which is evident in the constant invasion
of gadgets that represent numerous answers without questions.
Recently, a person from Silicon Valley gave a befitting description
of the turning point which in culture is generally experienced
as discomfort: 'Home computer is a solution without a problem.'
Based on this, a hysteric turns his essence into a question."
(J.–A. Miller, "Liminaire". Ornicar?, 29, Paris, 1984, p.
4)
Given the fact that an "answer without a question" is actually
the most condensed definition of the real as the unsymbolised
(the real as a condition that "does not answer any question"
and which lacks a signifying horizon), it becomes clear in
what sense science represents the basic reality of the contemporary
world. This aspect of the "question-less answer" can be clearly
presented with three partial characteristics of the contemporary
age: the role of experts in everyday life; micro-electronic
gadgets; and advertising. The basic paradox of the contemporary
"cult of authenticity" is that its inner constitution and
driving force are a bunch of manuals which, by appearing scientifically
legitimate, give the subject prescriptions on how to attain
his authenticity, how to liberate the "creative potentials
of his Ego", how to cast his mask and reveal his "real Ego",
and how to turn to intuitive spontaneity and genuineness.
But here we are interested in something other than the fact
that even the most intimate spheres of life are presented
as attainable by means of (pseudo or real – it does not matter
which) scientifically legitimate procedures. In connection
with these phenomena, we usually speak of a void, and of the
loneliness, alienation and artificiality of "contemporary
man" in terms of a real need which the scores of manuals attempt
to satisfy in an individually psychological way by means of
a mystification of the actual social foundations. But we are
ignoring the opposite dimension, which is in fact even more
important: the primary effect of these manuals is not a prescription
of how to satisfy these needs but the creation of these "needs"
and the provocation of the unbearable sense of "void" in our
everyday life, the insufficiency of our sexuality, the lack
of creativity of our work, the artificiality of our relations
with other people and, at the same time, a feeling of complete
helplessness and an inability to find a way out of this dead
end – or in the words of Molière, before these manuals offer
their poetry to us, they haughtily instruct us that, up to
now, we have been talking in prose. The difference between
PN and borderline can be defined in terms of this very dialectic
of the question and answer: "pathological" Narcissus plunges
"without questions" into the current of ever-new answers and
for each answer, with an "ethical" obsession, he invents for
each object functions and needs to be met by it, in order
to conceal the basic paradox of the "answer without a question"
as soon as possible. In contrast, borderline defines a point
where this current stops, where the subject is faced with
the lack of meaning of the answer as such and where he no
longer accepts ever-new "answers without questions" "without
asking questions". He asks a well-known hysterical question,
a question to the Other, from whom he expects a different
answer, an answer to what these answers without questions
mean.
From a traditional point of view, this answer would be quickly
rejected on the premise that it represents "fake needs" serving
the interest of capital accumulation. Nevertheless, this explanation
is misleading, because it presumes the existence of "real
needs". Naturally, every individual has a few "basic" needs
which must be met in order to survive. But as soon as we enter
the sphere of the symbolic, the whole matter is reversed and
the symbolic articulation of a need changes it into a demand
of the Other, while beyond this demand there lurks the abyss
of unarticulated and merely-evoked desire. That need is subordinated
to desire is made evident by the banal fact that for desire
(=law), the subject is prepared to sacrifice any "basic" need,
such as going on hunger strike or living in complete celibacy.
The basic paradox or fundamental fact of psychoanalysis is
that no matter how integrated he is into the network of speech,
the subject in reality and irreducibly "does not know what
he wants", the object of his desire eludes him, and every
articulation of desire in the form of a symbolic demand is
accompanied by a shift until the ultimate point of the desire
turns into the experience of "this is not it", which in turn
creates a possibility for a whole range of "not wanting anything"
stands, such as of wanting only "nothing" – that missing part
which fuels the desire. Strictly speaking, the position of
the hysteric is nothing other than the position of a subject
who "does not know what he wants", who does not know to what
extent he is caught up in the network of predominators. The
"hysterical question" is the question to the big Other, demanding
to tell us what we want and what our desire is.
Here we must take into account the key fact that desire is
always inter-subjective – the subject's desire is, in different
forms, always "mediated" by the desire of the Other. The desire,
to desire what the Other desires, to desire the Other himself,
to desire to become the object of the Other's desire… Therefore,
the problem of the "permissive" "consumer" society does not
lie in the fact that it forces us to adopt "fake needs" instead
of "real ones". On the contrary, the problem is that with
the constant flood of new consumer items and the provocation
of demands, it narrows the space of desire, masks the "empty
place" from which desire emerges, and creates a saturated
field where the "impossible" desire can no longer be articulated.
In simple terms, "pathological Narcissus" is so saturated
with "answers without questions", and is shown in so many
ways "what he really wants", that he simply cannot experience
the paradox of the desire, the cleft between desire and wanting,
which results in the fact that, despite the object of desire,
"we do not know what we want". Borderline marks the very point
where this crazy curve breaks and the subject becomes hysterical,
convincing himself that, despite all the answers, he in fact
"does not know what he wants", finally opening up to the desire.
The paradox of the relationship between PN and borderline
is that the actual situation contradicts what is visible,
according to which borderline would be closer to the pathological
disintegration of the personality while PN would represent
a step closer to normalisation, or to an attempt at some kind
of unification of the Ego which is supposed to synthesise
the disintegrated elements. An opposing view would be that
if it is not a psychosis, "pathological narcissism" is clinically
a "pre-psychotic condition" at least, characteristic of the
"als-ob-personality" (as-if-personality) – a condition in
which, on the surface, the subject is "fully functional",
although he does not inherently abide by social law. For this
reason,"pathological Narcissus" gives the unsettling impression
that "there is nothing behind the mask", that we are speaking
to a puppet, that the mask really is just a mask, and that
what is hiding behind it is something completely different
and dialectically not mediated by the mask. Borderline is
not a transition from a pre-psychotic condition to psychosis
or the breakdown of the mask of the "pathological" Ego, which
supposedly maintained the appearance of unity. On the contrary,
it is the first step towards the "normalisation" of pathological
Narcissus, a point in its hysterisation, a point at which
the subject loses all distance and gets caught up in the paradox
of desire or the symbolic.
On this point, American psychoanalysis suffers retaliation
from its own conformist obsession with the problems of the
Ego as the agent of social adjustment: since the borderline
type lacks a "strong Ego", it quickly pronounces him psychotic
and cannot understand that somebody who is socially fully
"adjusted" and fully "functional" can, in fact, be psychotic.
Its idea of psychosis is defined in terms of a subject who
has lost "control of himself", who "cannot control his instinctive
forces" – who, in short, behaves in a "socially maladjusted
way". The paradox of "pathological Narcissus" lies in the
fact that he is a psychotic normal person: although PN behaves
"normally" in a "socially adjusted way" according to all "positive"
and empirically visible characteristics, "nothing is right"
and we get this persistent feeling that it is all a terrible
travesty, that the person in question is merely "acting real".
Here we could quote the well-known joke from Freud's Wit and
Its Relation to the Unconscious, which says that Shakespeare's
works were not written by Shakespeare but by his contemporary
of the same name. This is an example of PN's psychotic dimension:
"pathological Narcissus" is literally "somebody else" in relation
to himself, or in terms of his symbolic identity or identification.
In this context, we must also understand Lacan's statement
that the present-day "normal" individual is psychotic.
This considerably narrows down the term "repressive desublimation"
as employed by "critical theory" to determine the libidinal
economy of late bourgeois society: "repression" is understood
as the opposite of symbolic law or the pressure or command
coming from the Superego, while desublimation must be understood
in the strictest sense of Lacan's writings, which is almost
the opposite of the ordinary. Sublimation is usually identified
with desexualisation or a shift of the object as such, which
satisfies instinctive needs, to a "higher", "more cultural"
form of fulfilment; instead of seducing a woman, one seduces
the audience with poetry, and instead of getting into fights,
one criticises other people. According to a vulgar psychoanalytical
"interpretation", for this kind of artist contact with the
audience is a sublime form of sexual intercourse, and for
a critic an attack represents a sublime form of aggression.
It is not difficult to conclude that this kind of understanding
again presupposes some kind of "basic", "unsublime" form of
gratification which is sublimated. Lacan starts from an empty
place or nothing around which a desire is articulated and
from which the object or the reason for a desire is an impossible
and unsymbolised object, or a threatening deluding thing (das
Ding) that is in itself "nothing", which corresponds with
its own deficiency. Sublimation is nothing but the fact that
some "empirical" positive object is "elevated to the dignity
of things", that it experiences its own trans-substantiation
and that, in its subjective libidinal economy, it functions
as the embodiment or positivisation of "nothing", or the impossible
thing and reason-object of desire. The sublime object is therefore
the paradox of an object which can "live" only in "semi-shadow"
or can only be evoked: as soon as we attempt to render it
"explicit", to bring it to light, it is lost or melts away.
In Fellini's Roma, we find an exceptional example of the fragility
of the sublime object. During the construction of tunnels
for Rome's underground railway, workers find an unexplored
underground opening and immediately call archaeologists, who
break through the wall sealing the cave. Suddenly, they gaze
upon the splendour of an ancient Roman hall whose walls are
covered with frescos featuring sad, melancholic figures (their
sadness is caused by their awareness that they are heathens,
that they were born too early for the Christian truth, because
of which they are doomed; these figures are closer to truth
than "real" Christians, who with justification are portrayed
by Fellini as hypocritical and obscene – this is also the
gist of Fellini's Satyricon). But the frescos are too fragile
to stand the light and, as soon as they come into contact
with the air, they start to fade away. Desperate onlookers
can only observe how the object which they approached too
closely is slipping away from them. This is the sublime object:
as long as it exists in "mid-space", in an obscure shadowy
world, it represents a threatening "thing"; as soon as we
get too close to it, however, it turns into an ordinary "positive"
object and we are faced with the banal reality. For this reason,
Lacan can repeat Rilke's thought that beauty is the last mask
shielding the horrible – beauty is a way of evoking the horror
of things in the world of the gaze. Therefore, sublimation
evidently has nothing to do with "desexualisation": the object
of "physical" erotic passion (if indeed it is passion) is
always sublime. In the case of "pathological Narcissus", however,
we can, with all justification, speak of "desublimation":
not because he is not able to "redirect his libidinal energy
towards higher goals" but because the libidinal object is
reduced to mere "positivity" due to the fact that Narcissus
wants to get to the "bottom" of everything, to come to terms
with it. Nevertheless, exactly because of this, he misses
that "nothing" evoked by the object if it remains in "mid-space".
Although borderline is a contemporary form of hysteria, or
the point of the hysterisation of "pathological Narcissus"
as the prevalent libidinal constitution of late bourgeois
society, it does not imply a simple transformation of a former
"traditional" form of hysteria. It is possible to say that
only with borderline does the constitution of hysteria enter
its "distilled" or purified form as a question presented to
another subject who "does not know what he wants". In the
case of "traditional" hysteria, this basic constellation is
veiled with "sexual repression". "Traditional" hysteria can
still be interpreted in terms of a naïve and unproblematic
opposition between "internalised" suppression and suppressed
instincts: the subject suppresses instincts or forms of instinct
gratification which are not acceptable to the internalised
value system, pushing them to the unconscious, while the suppressed
then resurfaces in the form of hysterical symptoms. With the
emergence of the "permissive" society, this naïve stand has
lost its significance. The vulgar understanding of psychoanalysis
has proclaimed it "outdated", whereas an approach which preserves
a feeling for the real subversive core of Freud's discovery
points to the fact that the paradoxical essence of the hysterical
condition is only now becoming evident. The fact that analytical
psychoanalysis does not recognise borderline to be a contemporary
form of hysteria, rather defining borderline disorders as
related to psychosis, is a result of its blindness to the
aforementioned subversive core of psychoanalysis and of the
fact that it literally does not hear the hysterical question.
First published in the Croatian edition of The Culture of
Narcissism by Christopher Lasch (Narcisistièka kultura, Naprijed,
Zagreb, 1986) Translated by AMIDAS, Ljubljana
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